The 80/20 Rule of Listening That Wins Hearts and Sales
I share the 80/20 rule of listening from my book The Winning Edge: listen 80, talk 20, to win trust, close more sales and lead better across India.
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By Avinash Chate — Maharashtra’s #1 Corporate Trainer & Motivational Speaker. .