Conflict Management: Turning Friction Into Progress
Conflict is inevitable at work. Trait #20 of Stars at India Inc. shows how great leaders turn friction into progress, with stories of Anjali Dhanorkar, Ajit Doval, MS Dhoni and the Thomas-Kilmann model.
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