Self-Awareness: The Foundation of Emotional Intelligence
In my book The Winning Edge, I show why self-awareness is the first step of emotional intelligence and how meditation builds the inner edge every professional and leader needs.
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By Avinash Chate — Maharashtra’s #1 Corporate Trainer & Motivational Speaker. .