Service Orientation: Putting the Customer First, Always
Trait #16 of Stars at India Inc. A service-oriented professional is a trusted advisor, not a salesperson. How Kaushal Mishra and Bhagyashree Lahane show that going the extra mile is the surest path to becoming a star.
Some professionals chase the sale. Others quietly build a customer for life. In my years of training thousands of people across India, I have learnt that service orientation — the habit of putting others first — is one of the surest signals of a future star. It is not softness. It is a mature, high-level skill that pays you back for decades.
In short- Service orientation means proactively meeting the needs of everyone connected to your work — clients, colleagues, managers, support staff and vendors.
- It is rooted in empathy and self-control, which is why it sits on the EQ (left) side of your Winning Kite.
- A service-oriented salesperson performs three to five times better than an average professional.
- Kaushal Mishra and Bhagyashree Lahane show what “going the extra mile” actually looks like in real Indian workplaces.
- Choose long-term relationships over short-term gains: “once a customer, always a customer.”
Where this sits on your Winning Kite
Service orientation is one of the emotional-intelligence traits on the EQ — left — side of The Winning Kite (KITE Leadership Framework). Picture a kite with four corners: Success at the top (the result), EQ on the left, RQ (Relationship Intelligence) on the right, and PQ (Productivity) at the bottom. You rise on balance, not on strength alone. Service orientation is where EQ visibly becomes RQ — because when you truly understand another person’s needs and act on them, you build the kind of trust that relationships and, ultimately, success are made of.
What service orientation really means
Service orientation is an essential quality that can set us apart in our professional lives. It is about understanding the needs of not only our clients but also all the people associated with our workplace — colleagues, managers, support staff. When you take a proactive approach to fulfilling those needs, you create a positive work environment where everyone feels valued and supported.
Do that consistently and something powerful happens: you create exceptional customer experiences, you build strong relationships with your coworkers, and you lift the overall performance of your team. A service-oriented mindset is not a nice-to-have. It is one of the quiet engines of a successful career and a harmonious workplace.
The trainer who never complained: Kaushal Mishra
Let me tell you about Mr. Kaushal, who showed exceptional service orientation as a software trainer. He was assigned to train a group of 20–25 employees from a large construction company called Amanora. The program ran for a full month during the rainy season, and Kaushal had to travel 12 kilometres each day, in heavy rain, to reach the training site.
Despite the weather, he never complained and was always on time. One day, after braving the rain and arriving completely soaked, he discovered the session had been cancelled at the last minute. Instead of getting angry or upset, he calmly asked for a glass of water and went back to his office without a single complaint.
When the program ended, one of the participants — a good friend of mine — could not stop praising Kaushal for his dedication. He admired the sacrifices Kaushal made and the extra effort he put in to make the program succeed, despite every obstacle.
Here is the part I love. Kaushal Mishra joined CADD Centre Training Services as a junior trainer 8–10 years ago. Today he is a director at the company — and the people who worked with him know it was not his English, his appearance or his demeanour that got him there. It was the sacrifices he made for customers. He still emphasises taking extra pain for the customer, fulfilling commitments and building trust. That is what turned a junior trainer into a director.
Serving the people you don’t “have” to serve: Bhagyashree Lahane
Service orientation is not only about clients. It is about everyone connected to your workplace — and Bhagyashree (Mhaske) Lahane proves it. As Assistant Manager of HR at AEL – Mahindra CIE Group Company, she treats even her vendors, like us, with genuine care.
When our company worked with her as a corporate consultant to train Mahindra employees, she consistently went the extra mile to make sure our needs were met and that we felt supported through the whole process. From the very first meeting to organising and running the sessions, her attention to detail and proactive approach were obvious.
But what impressed me most was something unusual. In our line of work, chasing payment is normal. Bhagyashree did the opposite — she chased us to take our money. Even when we were slow to collect, she kept calling, once asking in Marathi, “Avinash, tujha kade paise jast zhalet ka?” (“Avinash, don’t you need the money?”). She went out of her way to collect the cheque herself and kept it at her house, which was near our office, until we could pick it up.
Bhagyashree began her journey as a head of training and development at Aurangabad Electricals Ltd. and is now Assistant Manager–HR at a Mahindra CIE group company. Her rise is no accident. By treating vendors with the same care she gives clients and colleagues, she builds strong professional relationships and adds to the success and harmony of her whole organisation.
The trusted advisor vs. the transaction chaser
We have all met the other kind of professional — the service provider who is more interested in chatting with coworkers than helping you, or the one who vanishes the moment your broadband stops working, or the bank employee who cannot be bothered. The difference between them and a Kaushal or a Bhagyashree is one thing: service orientation, which is rooted in empathy and the ability to understand what the customer actually needs.
Professionals who believe in service orientation take on the role of a trusted advisor. They never misguide a customer for the sake of a sale. They control their temptations and focus on the customer’s real need. That honesty and integrity builds trust — and once customers trust your advice, they stop looking elsewhere. The result is repeat orders, referrals and sales that quietly outperform your competition. It is said that a service-oriented salesperson performs three to five times better than an average one.
This is fundamentally a choice. In sales you have two options: focus on short-term gains or invest in long-term relationships. Short-term, you may earn money but you will not grow. Long-term, you build a community of customers who promote your brand through word of mouth. Live by “once a customer, always a customer,” and you are no longer selling products — you are fulfilling needs and building relationships that compound for years.
How service orientation connects to everything you’ve read
If you have followed the Winning Kite this far, notice how the traits stack. We started with self-awareness — being aware of your thoughts, moods, fears and temptations so you can control your actions. Service orientation puts that to work: a customer may reach out again and again, and you will need to make extra efforts that do not directly boost your sales. Putting in that effort anyway is self-control in action — going the extra mile. And that self-control leads straight into understanding others, their needs and their pain points.
This is why service orientation is such a mature, high-level signal. When you can genuinely understand others and act on it, you are emotionally mature. Develop this habit early in your career and nothing can stop you from becoming a star: your average salary will be higher than your peers’, and your promotions will come faster. (Daniel Goleman would call this emotional intelligence in action — but as Kaushal and Bhagyashree show, the proof is in the Indian workplace, not the textbook.)
Why service orientation goes missing
We have all felt the absence of service — in supermarkets, airports, hotels, banks. In my experience there are three reasons it disappears:
| Reason | What happens |
|---|---|
| Sales over customers | When management chases only targets, employees stop caring genuinely for customer needs. |
| Short-term over long-term | Daily crises and incentive pressure make people lose sight of the customers they meant to retain. |
| Low job satisfaction | If you are not happy or engaged in your work, it is almost impossible to serve others well. |
Recognising these traps is the first step. In today’s job market, going the extra mile is also your best insurance — no matter how tough things get, your job stays secure as long as your customers keep coming back to you.
How to develop service orientation
Service orientation is a combination of self-awareness, empathy and a commitment to continuous improvement. Here is how I coach people to build it:
- Cultivate self-awareness — understand your own thoughts and impulses so you can respond to customers instead of reacting.
- Develop empathy — step into the customer’s shoes and anticipate needs before they are voiced.
- Listen actively — ask open-ended questions and truly hear the concern before you solve it.
- Improve communication — be clear, concise and empathetic so solutions land.
- Be adaptable — every customer is unique; tailor your approach and welcome feedback.
- Sharpen problem-solving — identify issues and generate creative fixes quickly.
- Stay updated — know your industry so your advice stays relevant.
- Set high standards — hold yourself accountable for top-notch service, always.
- Keep a positive attitude — a genuine desire to help creates positive experiences.
- Learn from the best — watch the Kaushals and Bhagyashrees around you and copy what works.
Practise these daily and “once a customer, always a customer” stops being a slogan and becomes how you work. This is exactly the kind of behaviour change we drill in my corporate training programs and deeper signature programs — because it is teachable, and it compounds. Service orientation is one of many EQ traits; you can trace how it links back to self-awareness and self-control across the Winning Kite framework.
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Frequently Asked Questions
What is service orientation?
Service orientation is a proactive habit of understanding and fulfilling the needs of everyone connected to your work — customers, colleagues, managers, support staff and even vendors. It is rooted in empathy and self-control, and it turns you into a trusted advisor rather than a transactional salesperson.
Why does service orientation make you a star at work?
A service-oriented salesperson performs three to five times better than an average professional because satisfied customers become loyal, refer others and return again and again. This creates repeat business, job security and faster promotions — which is why it is one of the traits in Stars at India Inc.
Why do so many people lack service orientation?
There are three common reasons: management prioritising sales targets over customers, chasing short-term wins over long-term retention, and a lack of job satisfaction or engagement. When you dislike your work, it is very hard to genuinely serve others.
How do I develop service orientation?
Build self-awareness and empathy, listen actively, communicate clearly, stay adaptable, sharpen your problem-solving, set high standards for yourself, keep a positive attitude and learn from people who serve well. Practise these daily until “once a customer, always a customer” becomes your default.
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